LIVING EXAMINED LIVES
Welcome to my virtual space! 🤗
On this opening page, I welcome you with open arms my life experiences, learnings, trainings, networks, opportunities; those pictorially visible and not visible (see below). Those who are not pictorially visibly here are my quiet supporters, strong advocates, prayer warriors. They are by no means less significant than those I can show you pictorially. They are my family, relatives, friends, brothers-in-arms, mentors, coaches, counselors, spiritual leaders, government leaders, community and grassroots leaders, colleagues, mentees, supervisees, students and even clients.
This website is the place where I share my growth and encourage growth – growth towards a better self in the area of mental health (精神健康), growth in relationship insights (人际关系的智慧) and spiritual growth (灵性的成长).
Growth starts from being able to examine our lives. Our lives have to still move along as we examine it. We are not machines or robots where we can be stopped or rebooted; not to mention have an upgraded code written and patched into our operating system. Thus, the active word here is “Living”. Constantly, we want to be living examined lives. The examination of our lives is not done and cannot be done in silos, void of space and time? In a more privileged situation, you may have the luxury of checking into a hotel or retreat center to take time out and examine areas of our lives for improvements.
For most of us, we are rushing day-to-day or doing one thing after another every day. Most of the time not because we want to, but because we have to? And this is often true for the younger ones! I have been a psychologist for more than twenty years, and more recently (2023), I graduated from law school. For all these time, I have grown as a person and a professional whilst working with individuals 13 to 30 years of age. I hope to be able to continue to serve persons in this age range for growth from four areas – knowledge of the brain, adolescence development, spirituality and the law.




























































































































